Please enjoy the following conversation with future (June 17-20 in Boston!) duo partner Eva Bora. It has been edited for clarity and length.
We plan to auction off our first appointment to a very lucky human who wants to be there for Eva to lose her girlginity. Bidding starts at 3000 for a 2-hour date.
Email me dateavivaruse@proton.me to make a bid for June 17 6-8 pm.
INTERVIEW WITH EVA BORA
Aviva Ruse: Tell me your duo backstory
Eva Bora: I thought I was biromantic. Then I went to a boxing class. But I’m getting ahead of myself. Duos are something that all my clients have asked if I’d ever be interested in doing, and the answer has been no for several reasons. I didn’t network locally, and I didn’t feel comfortable. Boston’s a small city. Every time I go on the T somebody I don’t know recognizes me from my civ life. For that to suddenly mix into my provider life is scary. We cheer each other on online, which feels safe and good. I didn’t know how I could even wrap my head around the idea of myself working with anyone. Then I took a boxing class last year, and there was a woman in my class that was very androgynous. I had a humongous crush on them.
I had crushes on girls before, but they were more romantic than sexual. When I met this person, suddenly I don’t care what’s below the waist. I want something to do with it right now. So that was a shift and a realization. I went out dancing with them one night. I have never had so many womens eyes on me. I liked it a lot more than I thought I would.
So it’s something I’ve been playing with, progressively. I haven’t done a threesome before. I don’t have friends among other escorts. However, when I met you, Aviva, I thought, I like this person. I get along with this person. I can communicate with this person in a way that I’ll feel safe. These are important aspects with any client, but it’s just as important with a provider if I’m going to work with them. So that’s how it started to shift. A day before you reached out and said you’re coming to Boston, one of my regular clients started spinning this fantasy in the middle of our session, of this woman that might have a strap on and be taking me while he takes her from behind, and then maybe he takes me, and then but she plays with me. I’m a very submissive person…
AR: I have a strap that goes inside of me and has a ridge under my clit–I could fuck my couch and come. I can fuck you and come really hard while I’m on top of you, no hands. I have a harness because you get really wet. Well, I get really wet.
EB: Oh my gosh, this. I mean, depending on on how you hit it, I’ll probably get pretty wet too.
AR: Okay, so I’m the top. Of course.
EB: I identify it as a generally submissive leaning switch, but with the right people, I could also become dominant. I could see both of us, double teaming, just taking him down, and he’d be all about so I’d probably rise up to your level and just be like, let’s go.
So does that answer your question?
AR: It was just a jumping off point to see what cool shit would come out of your mouth. So, yeah, you killed it.
EB: I’m curious, you tend to be a bit more on the dominating the side is that about, right?
AR: I had a cool client a few years ago who rented a dungeon and I was like fuck it. I’ll try pegging you, but I made him bring his own dildo.,He sent me money to get all these toys and shit to beat him with. But, the dildo, I’m like, You need to get that yourself.
EB: I’ve learned that the people who want to get pegged,they need to be responsible for their detachable dongs.
AR: Exactly. I will wear it, but you need to bring it, clean it, care for it, and take it with you when you go.
EB: Also they need to make sure it’s the right size for them. I’ve I made that mistake. I bought one online because somebody said, Oh, I could take an eight inch cock. It was literally a horse. It was comically big. I don’t even think I could take this. I like to think I’m somewhat of a size queen. So I was like, if I feel I don’t know if I can take this, there’s no way I can make this rookie do that. So men, you are responsible for the detachable dongs you want to get fucked with.
AR: I have custom leather restraints. They’re really beautiful. I had to do all my measurements for them. I could probably bring the collar, leash, handcuffs…
EB: I have under the bed restraints. I was talking with [redacted], because he’s done a duo before. And he was like, it was so long ago, you’re asking me to rack my brain. I think he doesn’t want to talk about it because he feels awkward telling me. I’m like, no, tell me so I can know what to do and what not.
AR: Many men are so used to their wives getting jealous and holding things against them. We just want that information so we can do our job better.
EB: Let me be the sex geek that I am. Whenever I have a guy who’s shy about his wants and desires, that’s when I start to get a little more assertive and encouraging. Like, come on. You’re in a space where you can share all of your desires with me. It doesn’t mean that we’re going to do them all, but I will try to see what we can do. I have bodily autonomy too. [Redacted] said something that I hadn’t considered logistically. He noted that the providers he saw used female condoms, and I’ve never used female condoms, but that makes sense.
AR: Oh, that makes it easy for them to go back and forth, good idea.
EB: I’m a huge nerd. I had to look into it. There’s only one female condom that’s approved in the US, but you can definitely buy ones that are not FDA approved, from the EU.
AR: I’ll go to the Pleasure Chest. It’s a short walk from my place. They’ll help me. And they give an industry discount.
EB: They’re so hard to find, though, you can’t find them off the shelf anymore.
AR: Santa Monica Boulevard baby. Do you know how much sex happens here?
EB: I hope. Let’s paint a picture for longer dates. I have one client who is considering treating himself to a long duo booking for his birthday. Where we’re staying, we’re not gonna say where we’re staying yet, but, that’s the kind of place where you want to do that. Have you been there before?
AR: No, I’m so excited.
EB: I went the opening week because I live so close to it. It is so beautiful. It’s so sexy.
AR: I love a place you don’t have to leave. There’s a spa, right?
EB: It’s beautiful. I’ve been dying to go. I want to have a spa day, either just with you and me, or maybe with three of us, that would be amazing. Oh, yeah, they have a high tea there. They have every kind of food and shopping. If any high-rolling men would like to take us shopping for designer items, that can be arranged.
AR: I think it’s so fun to get really dolled up and walk around with a guy in the middle of two ladies. That’s such a vibe, you know, all that “you’re the man” attention. The way your career and family make you feel like the man in the social order? We can make you feel like that sexually.
EB: Just walking to the floor is beautiful. Even sitting at some of the inner bars going to the blackjack tables, there’s so much cool stuff. And there are multiple floors too. There are even private areas that have higher roller areas, but they are a little more closed off. So we could all sit together and touch your lap and wish you luck. There’s a lot of opportunity in that place. We might be painting too much of a picture for where we’re going. So I might have to write something about that. Oh, man, you got me inspired. Now, where was I going?
AR: I think we should go to Vegas sometime!
EB: Vegas is the place to take us when you’re officially divorced and ready to ball out.
